Flying Monkeys that won’t go away.

My ex has one main Flying Monkey. This one is the fakest of the fake. She called me about a month after I left the state to talk to my girls. The phone was answered by accident. I was in the grocery store. When I answered and realized the mistake I froze. She asked me...

Divorcing My Narcissist

I wrote a series for Queenbeeing about my journey and the steps to divorcing a narcissist. I will link them throughout this blog. I walked through the steps of my divorce to give others insight on the procedure. Today is one year since the day I walked into the...

DIY Divorce: Lessons I Have Learned

When filing for a high conflict divorce you are going to fight tooth and nail for what you want and need. When I filed in January I waited for him to answer the petition for Dissolution of Marriage. He promised he would give me an answer and time passed by. I thought...
Cash Jobs, the Ultimate Manipulation Tool.

Cash Jobs, the Ultimate Manipulation Tool.

When I met my ex he was a restaurant manager for iHop, his child support was automatically taken from his check. I was unaware of any issue there and then things changed. In the first couple of months, he would come home talking about this opportunity to open a pizza...

Financial Abuse: The abuse that keeps on giving

Financial abuse happens in most domestic violence abuse situations. If your spouse has controlled your ability to use, acquire, or maintain financial resources you have been financially abused.   Not only did my ex abuse me to the point that I lost all confidence in...
Upcoming Christmas Events

Upcoming Christmas Events

Are you finding yourself alone this holiday season? Maybe you’re not alone but who you are with is toxic. If you have the time and want to come to hang out with Coach Colleen and me for a Christmas Eve Hangout on Zoom @ 7pmEST. Just click the event link to say you are...